Last night my lovely artist friend, Holli and I hosted a paint night. We were hired to lead a watercolor tutorial for a birthday celebration.
The ladies brought an unbelievable array of food to celebrate.
As they were munching and mingling, Holli leans over to me and whispers, "this is now the age group of our church leaders... it's a beautiful thing". It caught me off guard as I had been so focused on things like, what we will paint? Was it too hot in my kitchen? What serving spoons should I put out?
All night I thought about that comment as I watched Jess (our pastor's wife) make us all laugh, Michelle (our music minister's wife) orchestrate the night and Hanna (our youth minister's wife) pop back into my sick teenage daughter's bedroom to make her feel loved and seen.
As we painted, the friends laughed, caught up and brought forth some beautiful peafowl.
Holli and I talked about how we used to be these ladies with young ones and ripe with little babies on the way. For Holli it was about 18 years ago and for me about 10. Now we are reminded that we are the older ladies...
Titus 2 in the bible says that older women should teach what is good and train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self controlled and pure, busy at home, to be kind and to love their husbands well.
Only on this night, they were the ones who were teaching and inspiring us ...
This next generation of mammas has us encouraged and feeling peace and hope for the future. They've got this!
If you are considering taking an art class but are worried about making the time or taking on the extra expense, here are 10 fresh things to consider ...
1. It's a myth that to make art you need talent. It's REALLY about making the time to practice and learn the skills.
2. As we get older, we should have a hobby that we enjoy (besides eating and napping).
3. The best way to make lasting, sustainable progress in anything is by taking baby steps.
4. A structured, set-aside time to paint helps you ... actually paint.
5. Art class serves as a great way to feel less stress. Taking a deep breath and slowing everything down to only focus on one task is refreshing!
6. Teacher and peer feedback. Being able to have others give you real feedback on how to improve your work is truly invaluable.
7. Learn about the creative process. If you aren't an artist yourself but love art, taking a class like this can help you learn more about what goes into a piece.
8. You'll stretch yourself. Say no more!
9. You'll have something in your week to truly look forward to. It's relaxing and enjoyable!
10. You will rekindle a long-lost passion. Most of my adult students enjoyed making art as a kid but set it aside because of life's demands. Now is the time to pick your love back up. As Pablo Picasso once said, “All children are artists. The problem is how to remain an artist once one grows up.”
If I've peaked your interest, then here is the link for class details.
A newly finished watercolor of a bundle of grapes to inspire you. I am planning a trip to Italy this year and I have vineyards on my brain!
It's coming around again .... SCHOOL. While it is still Summer time, My kids are starting to feel the weight of the impending school year. Summer projects still need to be completed, and most of our exciting activities have been checked off our list. Only a few more precious weeks of freedom!
One thing I can say I'm looking forward to about August is that my art classes start back up. This year I'm doing a little something different. I'm starting an advanced watercolor class. It will be Wednesday during the day for those who have taken art classes with me in the past. We plan to dig deeper and incorporate a book called, Art and Fear. The class will be a bit of discussion on art and life, then lots of experimenting and learning. We'll linger over our projects and hot tea longer and take each piece to the next level by starting with sketches and then bringing them back and forth to the group for discussion and feedback. I'll learn and grow right along with the students.
Tuesday evenings I'll continue the beginner to intermediate class from 5 to 6:15 . It is fine if you have to come a few minutes late, just come. Let this be a time that your children or husband step up to fix dinner while you enjoy painting. Seriously, you won't regret carving out this time for yourself. This class covers basic art theory such as light and shadow, perspective, composition, color mixing and much much more. We also talk about the emotional side of making art. I weave into the classes my theories on what I call, "Creative Truths." Here they are below:
(If you know these creative truths, you can jump ahead and read details on class pricing, get a syllabus, a supply list and sign up for either class here.)
Call yourself what you are.
If you love to create art, you are an artist. If you love to write music, you are a musician …
Proficiency in something or getting paid for it does not make you those things. Your passion for them does.
Quit trying to fit.
No matter how much you may want to, you can never completely divorce yourself from your own style, nor should you try to. It will follow you everywhere. You can get better and change your mediums and methods but your own unique style will always shine through.
Recognize that God made us to enjoy our work.
“ I have noticed one thing, at least, that is good. It is good for people to eat, drink, and enjoy their work under the sun during the short life God has given them, and to accept their lot in life. And it is a good thing to receive wealth from God and the good health to enjoy it. To enjoy your work and accept your lot in life--this is indeed a gift from God.”
- Ecclesiastes 3:18 - 19
Do things that scare you.
Art and creative pursuits make you vulnerable because they are so subjective. Embrace this vulnerability and fight through the fear. When we stop fearing failure, we are free to start being creative. Your mistakes are part of your process. Learn what to keep and what to erase and recognize that it is all part of learning.
Compare your work to your own work.
Yes, it is good to be inspired by other's work that you love, but when you are comparing, look to see how much your own creative work has grown and changed. A friend of mine keeps all of her old paintings so that each year she can go through her notebooks and see how far she has come!
Keep some white space.
Just as white space is important in art and design, it is also important to keep on our calendars as well. I'm still learning not to book up every moment, but when I leave some days unplanned and unscheduled, it leaves open space for refreshment and inspiration.
Learn to accept criticism.
Ask for feedback and develop thick skin to be able to receive it. Understand that most criticism can be used constructively. Begin to recognize what feedback is helpful, and flush that which is not.
When you think you are embarrassing yourself, keep working.
As we begin to make progress learning something totally new and outside of our comfort zone, the self-doubt kicks in hard. We think, who am I to do this or that, or why did I even think I could try this! This is where it is easy to get stuck. If not recognized for what it is, the fear of embarrassment can become an unconscious form of self sabotage. Don't let that happen.
Take the next right step
Don't wait to have it all figured out before you prayerfully do work you love. This quote by Agnes De Mille says it well, "Living is a form of not being sure, not knowing what's next or how. The moment you know how, you begin to die a little. The artist never entirely knows. We guess. We may be wrong, but we take leap after leap in the dark." For me this means faithfully moving forward.
Now's the time to get details and sign up for either class. Hope you can join us!
We all know that Oviedo has been mentioned in "top cities to live" lists in multiple publications, but what strikes me the most, what really makes me smile are the intangibles...
Between my three kids' activities and selling art at shows, I get to meet a lot of people around town. From getting to know young families to older folks to city officials, it got me thinking about the things I love about our town.
1. In this town, we support one another's endeavors.
We try our best to attend each other's events and activities. Just look at how many small businesses and work-from-home ventures we manage to support. We understand the old adage that another's success does not diminish our accomplishments, instead they often add value. I've been amazed by the support I've personally felt in this community and have tried to pass that support on. I see others around me doing the same. It's inspiring.
2. We know one another.
Yes, at times it can be tough quickly running into Publix or Target without stopping to chit-chat but you have to admit, this town of 60,000+ can sometimes feel like 500. It's not that we are a group full of gossips, it's just that our lives overlap. We are interwoven like the lattice top of a blueberry pie. This occurs by attending many years of school events, church gatherings, sports and service projects. We are raising our families together. I know that if my kids are out acting a fool that I will hear about it. Conversely, when they are doing things right, someone is going to compliment them. It's part of the parent network and it's healthy.
3. We tolerate annoyances well together and know how to laugh at them.
There are things about living in any town that are frustrating, but as a bunch, I think we exercise a lot of patience. Like how we are the only ones who can decode the multiple names of one street. Or how we've painfully stuck by our mall hoping for eventual improvements. What about the way we love our little chickens, even if it means waiting for them to slowly cross the road? There is also the growing traffic and that eyesore of the Albertsons plaza. These are things beyond our control as residents and yet we manage to work around them.. These things might be mildly vexing, but the issues can be complicated and it's easy to overlook a thing or two when you know how good you've got it … and we all know.
4. We help one another in times of need.
In the 17 years that I've lived here, I've seen this town truly rally when crisis hits. In case you doubt me, remember back to a few names; Madison Mickens and the flag football tournament to raise money for support of his family and medical expenses. Nadia Bloom and the incredible search and recovery of that precious young lady. Or how about hurricanes Charley and Mathew? We slept over at one another's houses when we didn't have power and cleared our neighbors' and friends' yards with chainsaws that we didn't really know how to use. It was a great time of community!
5. Neighbors feel like neighbors.
Recently, I've become aware of a group of young teen girls living in an Oviedo foster home. A dear friend of mine asked if I'd be willing to do a watercolor workshop for them. When I got there to paint with the girls, I was surprised to see two other friends. One was ready to help the group paint and one was dropping off a McDonald's dinner. I had no idea they were quietly involved in this type of service. It became known to me that these ladies were a part of a group called Foster Friends of Oviedo. As awareness of the girls' needs grows, so has the number of people stepping up to bring meals, donate items and raise funds. It's been incredible to witness! My eyes well up thinking of how our community will rally when we know about a need... everyone sharing or doing what their unique circumstances will allow. If you'd like to get involved or give, check out iwillprevail.org. As a show of your support for the girls, you'll receive a "LOVE Oviedo" sticker donated by the creator of the Oviedo 32765/32766 Facebook page, Emma Reichart.
Beyond the parks and amenities, it's those hard-to-put-your-finger-on elements that really make the town of Oviedo feel like home!
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*The above list is courtesy of Lars White, Our Oviedo Fire Chief
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